Jennifer firmly massaged this area with no mind-numbing fear on my part. It appears that Richard’s massage was powerful enough to liberate me and my neck from a heavy layer of its former servitude. I still felt some inklings of fear and flashes of a few less-than-comforting images, so I suspect there may be more to release, but I feel that the hardest part is over. Here’s me smiling and breathing a sigh of relief!
Chronicles the otherworldly adventures of an atheist lawyer turned mystic and healer.
Welcome to this Blog
Welcome! Just like Raw Food, just like Twitter, there are many new creations sweeping the world. I am one of them. So is this blog. So - I’m wagering - are you. As the world changes, we discover ourselves more deeply and a new, more personalized spirituality emerges. The new spirituality may or may not involve a church, a mosque, a synagogue, or even a yoga studio. What it does do is ignite the creative spark within. It inspires us to move in large and small ways into new territory. This territory is more loving, authentic, expansive, and innovative. This blog is devoted to an exploration and celebration of this new spirituality, its promise and the rejuvenation it brings.
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Good News & Massage Therapist in a Mask! – 20 Massages in 2 Months (Massage #7)
Jennifer firmly massaged this area with no mind-numbing fear on my part. It appears that Richard’s massage was powerful enough to liberate me and my neck from a heavy layer of its former servitude. I still felt some inklings of fear and flashes of a few less-than-comforting images, so I suspect there may be more to release, but I feel that the hardest part is over. Here’s me smiling and breathing a sigh of relief!
Thursday, January 6, 2011
20 Massage in 2 Months - Massage #2
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| A large Geode filled with naturally occurring amethyst and citrine sits inside the front door of the Center for Well-Being in Monroe, WA. |
The mat is filled with something like 25 pounds of crushed amethyst crystal. That’s a lot of amethyst! I’m guessing that the sheer quantity is part of why it’s effective. I’ve used amethyst in my own healing work and it is a rock of some power. By analogy, as a microwave heats water, amethyst helps rid the body of toxins that can contribute to tension or disagreeable moods. Part of the way it does this is to help open the body to healing energies while neutralizing influences that are not so helpful. (Though you definitely wouldn’t want to put your body in a microwave, it’s safe to do so with amethyst!) (Speaking of amethyst ... pictured above is the large geode filled with naturally occurring amethyst and citrine crystal positioned just inside the Center's front door... a rock which undoubtedly adds to the good vibrations of the place).
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
20 Massages in 2 months - Massage #1
I arrived early for my massage scheduled for 4:15 pm. As I walked in the lobby of the Center for Well-Being in Monroe, Washington I was greeted by the soothing sounds of water falling in a tall stone fountain, the chords of Native American flute playing on a CD, and the calm friendly faces of staff.
While I waited for my massage I thumbed through the scrapbook the founders had put together on the evolution of the business. In the scrapbook the Center’s mission was stated as: “working to make massage a viable medical option for our community.”
I received today’s massage from one of the Center’s founders, Richard Oliver. I asked him to say more about the Center’s mission. He emphasized the therapeutic aspects of massage and the ways it can improve quality of life including stress reduction, improved blood flow, decreased muscle tension, increased endorphins, all of which strengthen the immune system and also make you feel good. “We want to make a difference in your tissue. We want to help you make forward progress,” he said.
As we discussed what I wanted out of my massage I mentioned the tightness in my neck, shoulders, arms and shoulder blade area, including recurring numbness in my right arm. He pointed to a chart showing the muscle anatomy of the human body and explained the relationship between different sets of muscles that can hold tension and create discomfort. With respect to my nervousness about having people touch the front and sides of my neck he agreed that massage might help get to the bottom of this puzzle. I asked him if he could do a bit of cranial-sacral work during the massage. Cranial-sacral is a form of light manipulation which can be used alone or as a compliment to massage (or other therapies) and works with the cranial bones, sacrum and spinal fluid to balance energy in the body. “Cranial-sacral is non-invasive, even less invasive than massage. This means that there is less resistance in the body and this lack of resistance allows us to go deeper,” he said. Richard is technically trained and also highly intuitive in his approach. This means that he can tailor his technique to needs of the client, even when those needs shift between massages.
This all sounds promising to me. I know from experience that balancing energy in the body is important given that emotional energy underlies physical ailments. Proper energetic flow moves emotions allowing for healing. Also, Richard’s intuitive approach means that I am likely to experience a massage that is not only custom made for me, if my needs change, he will follow suit and with each massage I will get more of what I need. This is the theory.
Our extensive discussion meant that my massage would be shorter than usual – something to keep in mind for all those massage goers out there! Richard stepped out of the room so that I could undress. I slipped between the sheets. The table was padded with what felt like miles of memory foam. The heating pad had been turned up to high – just like I like it - a wonderful feeling on this cold winter evening. Even my toes felt comforted as they sunk into the warm foam.
(for more, see next post)
Thursday, December 30, 2010
New Year’s Resolution – 20 Massages in 2 Months
What prompted this and why two months?
My health insurance runs out at the end of February. My goal is to take advantage of the 20 self-referring massages allowed per year under my insurance in the first two months of 2011.
I have relied on massage to help with life. A decade or so ago I had a car accident that left me with intermittent back and neck pain that is more intense during times of fast change – and right now, things are changing fast. I write a lot so my arms get sore. My leg muscles including my IT bands (these run up the outside of the thigh) are painfully tight – in theory from pedaling my bicycle. And then there is the emotional side of life. Since childhood I’ve disliked it when people touch the front or sides of my neck. It makes me tense. I’d like to see if the massage can help me get to the bottom of this.
20 massages in two months? That’s two and sometimes three massages a week. Now that I’m thinking about it, I'm not sure it's a good idea. All that muscle manipulation relieves pain and stress in part through releasing toxins from the cells of the body. It takes time for those toxins to work their way out of the body. Trying to process too many toxins at once can lead to emotional overwhelm, physical discomfort and even symptoms like those that come with cold and flu.
There is a chance I will become infinitely relaxed and pliable or, equally, that I will get pushed to my limit of what I can process physically and emotionally. There’s only one way to find out! Please join me as I explore the outer limits of massage!

